Program
Conversational Leadership Revealed
Invitation
This program is a living dojo...You're welcome to step in, adapt its rhythms, and bring your own voice to the curriculum. It's open-source in spirit: use what serves you, build upon it, and share with others. But don’t go it alone—the real transformation happens in conversation!
Principles
- Relax completely
- Feel into emotional waves
- Release tension inviting clarity
- Form reflection into reflex
Practices
Awareness
- Emotional
- Social
- Relational
- Energetic
- Somatic
- Metaphorical
Levels
Focus
Orientation
Challenge
FEBI™ (Focus Energy Balance Indicator) Assessment
Focus
Plasticity
Challenge
Analyze the experience of `Life Without Should` for part of a day
- The Backwards Brain Bicycle
- How Does Cognitive Reflection Hone Emotional Instinct?
- Life Without ‘Should’: A Simple Practice for Deeper Awareness 💡
Exercises
Focus
Perception
Challenge
Analyze a spirited conversation through the lenses of FEBI™ and Consciousness
- Bias - Duck Rabbit
- The Value of Allowing Multiple Perspectives
- Map of Consciousness - David Hawkins
Exercises
Focus
Emotions
Challenge
Improve a conversation that matters using the new moves and flips
- Negotiation 9™ Move - Labels
- Negotiation 9™ Move - Mirrors
- Negotiation 9™ Move - Dynamic Silence
- Zen Leader Essential Flip - Coping to Transformation
- Zen Leader Essential Flip - Tension to Extension
- Zen Leader Essential Flip - Or to And
Exercises
Focus
Presence
Challenge
Improve a conversation that matters using the new moves and flips
- Negotiation 9™ Move - Paraphrasing
- Negotiation 9™ Move - Summary
- Negotiation 9™ Move - Calibrated Questions
- Zen Leader Essential Flip - Out There to In Here
- Zen Leader Essential Flip - Playing Your Strength to Strengthening Your Play
- Zen Leader Essential Flip - Controlling to Connecting
Exercises
Focus
Integration
Challenge
Improve a conversation that matters using the new moves and flips
- Breathing to Support the FEBI™ Patterns
- Negotiation 9™ Move - “I” Messages
- Negotiation 9™ Move - Encouragers
- Zen Leader Essential Flip - Drivers Results to Attracting the Future
- Zen Leader Essential Flip - It is All About Me to I am All About It
Exercises
Focus
Embodiment
Challenge
Live demonstration of wisely timed FEBI™ transitions and Negotiation 9™ moves
- Buddha in Blue Jeans
- Negotiation 9™ Move - Tone
- Zen Leader Essential Flip - Local Self to Whole Self
- Zen Leader Essential Flip - Delusion to Awakening
Exercises
Focus
Wu-Wei
Challenge
Converstional Randori unpacking your reflective essay about your journey